Haiku My Heart–Trusted Heart

Show me your true Heart.

I can be trusted with it.

For Mine feels the same.

 

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Go and show that beautiful heart of yours to someone.

You could start at Recuerda Mi Corazon and enjoy some more haiku love if you want.

Happy Friday, Beautiful Ones !

 

(PS : Can you tell I am having a ball with my new IPhone photo apps ?! This photo of one of my rocks was edited with Snapseed. Beth, you created a photo editing fool ! )

Ten years ago today...

Ten years ago today, David and I went on our first date. He traveled all the way from New Hampshire to Montreal to take me out.

(David and me - Fall 2006 added to an art journal page in 2008)

Nine years ago today, we got married. I traveled from Montreal in a U-Haul truck with my car on a trailer in the back and my black cat Georges doped up in the cab, all the way to New Hampshire to marry him...

(Dave and me - our wedding day - December 30, 2000)

(David and me - Fall 2009 - Hampton Beach, NH)

David and I, we have been going the distance since the very beginning of our relationship...

We have hit bumps in the road and seen them through together...

And we have provided a home for one each other's heart at the end of the day's journey...

After ten years together, we have learned that the road in front of us may not always be clear,

(Art journal page detail - February 2008)

But the One who we will be traveling that distance with always is...

I love you, My Sweet Man.

Happy Anniversary and here's to our safe and always love-filled travels...

My True Love Gave to Me ....

Our First Christmas - Christmas 2001

When David and I got married, it was time to start new traditions as a couple. This was and still is important to me. I come from a family that had some wonderful if not weird traditions that somehow marked us as uniquely "deBroin", like the fact that we had to tape the plastic doll head of our hideously ugly tree topper angel on each year but kept on using her anyway. (My sister, Kristina, just finally retired her this year !) Or the fact that my dad would shine up his mother's silver nut bowls (we were so not a shiny silver family the rest of the year !!!) and fill them with almonds, walnuts and filberts. We had lots of ups and downs growing up but Christmas was sacred somehow and all other crap was shelved in favor of the de Broin Christmas.


This added some pressure when it came to creating new traditions just for the two of us. David's family is a lot less focused on traditions and I think he was open to anything that would make his new bride happy.

One of the things I wanted to include was an advent calendar. We used to have the cheap paper ones with the few chocolate pieces taped inside when we were kids. I remember being so excited about the marking off the days until the 25th by opening up those little doors! I also thought about the song the Twelve Days of Christmas and the gifts given from one's true love. Put all of this together and you get :

the Mailhot 12 Days of Christmas Love Calendar !

Okay, I just named it today so it isn't perfect but the tradition has become so !


We have one of those 25 pocket felt advent calendars. As December starts, I cut up some cardstock into little cards that fit the pockets and make a pile of 12 cards for each of us. We take time to write some Christmas Love notes on the cards and fill the pockets of the calendar up, the 13th through 25th. Some years we set a theme of sorts, like "What I love about you is.." or last year's "If there were no money, time, location, etc constraints, I would give you ...". We read the notes with each other each morning for 12 days, our special moment together as each wintery day begins.

Here's a sample of some of what we wrote last year :(you can click to enlarge it)

We are just two in our family (I know, plus the furry kids), and David and I will be celebrating our 8th Christmas together as a married couple. We have built our own special Christmas traditions, wonderful and weird, that I treasure each year. Christmas is never really perfect all around - it wasn't when I was a kid either. But finding ways to make the love light gleam...now that is perfect.

Merry, merry Christmas to the man

who makes me laugh each and every day,

the man I love more than any one else in the world,

my Husband

and my best friend forever,

David.